Super Skinny Indigos, Bootyliciousness and 5 Habits of Ineffective People
WHAT:
Hey Divas! Since we’ve been talking “fall//winter” essentials as of late, there is no better time than the present to bring up super skinny indigo jeans. (For those of you who don’t know, indigo is the darkest, inkiest rinse you can get). I remember when skinny jeans first became mainstream and you had to be Newport-sucking-thin to rock the look. But then–thank heavens!–the first bootylicious girls dipped timid pinky toes into the tepid waters of painted-on denim and…in my opinion–blew those skinny minnie’s away like a strong breeze! So ladies, never fear if you’re carrying some extra junk in the trunk–the deep, rich indigo wash is ultra slimming and will compliment every last bit of what your mama gave ya!
Rich & Skinny $140
Whether you like designer or cute-cheapies, I’ve got you covered. Below, I’ve featured the darkest, sexiest pairs I could find–sans embellishments. If you’re over the age of 18, I beg you to lose the jean flare or risk looking like a member of Destiny’s Child (I’m sorry Mrs. Doing Too Much Knowles, but patent, rhinestones, fur AND denim?–oh so tacky!)
WHERE:
Urban O. $54
Kill City $88
Free People $73
J. Brand $160
AG $158
Levi's $30
HOW:
They’re jeans, ladies! You already know you can where them day, night, with a dressy top or a chunky sweater, a collared shirt or a tunic. The possibilities are endless. Shoes-wise, I would recommend a mean pair of ankle booties, an above-thigh pair of suede flats, or a sky-high pair of platform stilettos. Just suck it in, shimmy them on, and you’re halfway home!
EASY-LIVING TIP:
Everyone’s always telling you how to be effective. Well, I thought I’d spin that around and give you a list of habits that the world’s most ineffective people consistently exhibit. Avoid these five toxic productivity-zappers and watch your motivation soar:
INEFFECTIVE PEOPLE…
1. Are closed to outside ideas and influences. Do you find that you clutch-tight to your ideas, opinions, and work-habits? Sure you do. We all do. It’s that ego, rearing it’s ugly head again. But sometimes admitting that your way may not be the best way can be the most productive thing you do.
2. Don’t show up. Yes. It’s simple. In the words of Woody Allen, “80% of success is showing up.” Whether it means avoiding Pilates class because it’s drizzling outside, or just not sitting still in front of your computer, not showing up is the quickest route to failure.
3. Think too much. You want to plan. You want to outline. You want to research. At the end of the day though, too much thinking is just another means of procrastination. Don’t get it perfect, just get it done. Then, get it perfect.
4. Suffer from information overload. Ineffective people check the weather, the world news, the score of last night’s game, the outlook on the stock market…you catch my drift. Only consume the information you absolutely need in order to get done what you need to do. Being a well-rounded conversationalist is not going to get you closer to that goal. Doing work will.
5. Whine. Okay, we all feel better when we share our sob-stories about our hellish bosses and nincompoop co-workers and sadist mother-in-laws…or at least we think we feel better. In actuality, we’re reinforcing a negative outlook, weakening our own motivation, and…wasting time, yet again. Sure it sucks, but suck it up. It’s in the past and present is calling.
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Trendy Tights, Chastity Belts and Keeping Organized
by safura on October 5, 2009
in bottoms, leggings & tights, undergarments
WHAT:
Hi Girls! Before getting into today’s post, I would like to thank everyone for all of the positive feedback and support of Trendplicity! Please be sure to enter your e-mail in the lower right hand sidebar to receive each post, hot off the press! Now, down to business! When I was about eight or nine, it would take the grace of God (otherwise known as my mom putting the smack down) to get me to do two things: one, sit still and shut up while someone tried to tear a comb through my curly mop, and two, wear tights! Do you remember those white tights you’d wear as a little girl with the hearts and stars? Do you remember leggings (the knit kind)? For a tomboy like me, those things might as well have been the equivalent of a chastity belt to a hooker! Itchy, hot, and–ugh!–girly. Well ladies, I’ve since blossomed into a woman and taken to tights like a fish to water.
Express $49.50
There are SO many kinds to choose from now! We’re talking bright, bold opaques, faux leather leggings, cozy knit thigh-highs, satiny disco pants, lacy, floral, fishnet, knee-highs …you get the picture. Obviously, I couldn’t begin to show you the zillions of options out there for tights, but I’ve tried to point out several sites that have tons of choices for you to peruse. Let’s dive into the rabbit hole, shall we?
WHERE:
Jonathan Aston $12
We Love Colors $12.50
Topshop $12
Topshop $44
American Apparel $78
Trasparenze $23.25
HOW:
As many of you may have noticed, fall fashion tends to produce a lot of black, gray, and otherwise gloomy colors. Fortunately, tights are here to save the day! Take that little black dress, throw on some electric purple opaques and voila!–from snoozer to stylista! The knit thigh highs are beautiful when paired with knee-high leather boots. When it comes to fishnets, lace, or the other more provocative styles, I would definitely pair with a more conservative outfit, like a sweater dress or a pretty, full skirt (street-walker style is only sexy on Halloween!). My only hard, fast rule for tights: always go for opaque! Except for in the office, sheer is done!
EASY-LIVING TIP:
Today’s easy-living tip is one that may seem simple, but when put into practice, it can give you great peace of mind and serenity–which is always a good thing. I can’t remember who said it now, but some years back, a friend of mine proclaimed: “When my room’s in order, my life’s in order.” You may not realize it, but a lack of organization in your bedroom could be adding to your stress.
Think about it: digging for things you need, wasting time looking for lost items, shuffling through old irrelevant documents–these are time and energy zappers that you could avoid. And here are a few simple rules to help you do just that:
1. When you take off your clothes at night, don’t wait to put them away or throw them in the hamper. Just do it now! It won’t take any less time later, but it will prevent wrinkling and clutter and save you time in the end.
2. Go through your old documents and shred, shred, shred! Do you really need that cable bill from 1999?
3. Go through your beauty products and toiletries and ditch or condense. There’s a reason you haven’t used that hair gel in almost a year!
4. Try to keep surfaces generally clutter-free. This is more of a Zen habit. Visually, clean surfaces create better feng shui and increase productivity by decreasing distractions.
5. Give your room a thorough cleaning at least once a week and you’ll avoid the build-up that makes tidying a drag.
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