Nude pumps, Stickin’ It to “The Man” and Trusting

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WHAT:
Now, down to business…literally. I chose today’s love object with my incredible corporate divas in mind. An unlikely selection, considering that I do most of my work in jeans and a tee. Rarely do I get the chance to sport beautiful pencil skirts, crisp white collared shirts, elegant scarves, or–my favorite–the perfectly tailored power shift dress. Many of you who hate shopping for work-wear are probably thinking, “and this is a problem for you?” Let’s face it: it’s hard to be fly in suit unless you have Beyonce’s money or Michelle Obama’s stylist. However, there has always been one affordable trend that has caught my eye over the years as I’ve enviously watched my 9-7 ladies mill on and off the train in lower Manhattan…the perfect nude pump.

Every single time I see a pair, I think, “that’s a bad B.” They just scream “effortlessly stylish.” Now, some of you may have extremely conservative dress codes at your jobs, so for you, I would lean towards a classic, closed-toe style in a unique fabric. For those of you who have a little more flexibility and are looking for a subtle way to stick it to The Man, I say go crazy with it! The nude palette should give you a little room to play with design and details. Though I rarely opt for the conservative appeal, I tried to represent for everyone. Wear them proudly as I live vicariously through you!

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HOW:
Naturally, nude pumps go with just about everything. They can be dressed up or down, and are perfect for going from a day in the office to happy hour with the girls. Some of you may be thinking “but I’m not nude-colored–I’m brown. They won’t compliment my skin tone as well.” I used to think the same thing, but trust me–they still look fabulously chic. If you still want more of a monochromatic look, I would opt for a camel colored shoe or a deeper brown. One day soon, the makers of Band-Aids and shoe manufacturers around the world will wake up and realize we’re not all the same color!

EASY-LIVING TIP:
Today’s easy-living tip is short and sweet. It’s something that I often have to remind myself. In the journey of life, we’ve all taken our falls. Maybe someone has betrayed our trust personally, or maybe we’ve witnessed a parent or a friend suffer from being “too naïve” or “too nice, too soon.” As a result, we go through life seeing the glass half-empty instead of half-full. This means that when we meet someone, we give him %10 of our trust expecting him to work his way up to %100. We expect the worst, but hope for the best. Well, next time you meet someone, romantic or otherwise, I challenge you to take a chance and reverse this equation. Give him or her %90 of your trust; expect the best but prepare for the worst. It is nearly impossible to forge a true bond with someone if you refuse to be vulnerable. In the wise words of my dear friend, Last Offence, “you have to play big to win big.” You know as well as I do, it’s so worth the gamble…